Why Creators Get Insecure Easily

by Terence A Anthony


There are people who follow paths other people have created. They follow the conventional path. Follow the school syllabus, get a degree then follow their industry’s standards to get the best accolades. There’s nothing wrong with that. For some, a regimented path is what keeps them going.


From day 1, they know where to go and it’s a smart decision. While I do agree that insecurity affects any industry, but I have a feeling anyone who wants to get out a predetermined path is more likely to feel insecure. Even some of the hardest working people I know don’t feel like talking to those with easily described ventures.


The way I see it, it’s because creators and innovators have no idea where their ideas could take them. If they have tertiary education, that’s great. They have a social safety net. If they don’t have a paper backing them, then they have nothing for show. If they are still building their portfolio then compiling it would probably be a depressing reality for them.


That’s because they start comparing things to other people’s portfolio especially their heroes. But the one factor many don’t consider is where exactly did their heroes start.


You Were Not There


You were not there when Rodney Mullen tried to Ollie or landed his first Kickflip. You only saw him when he has won 41 championships or watched his most technical moves in a skate video.


You were not there when Anthony Bourdain struggled with his heroin habit and took the bus to culinary school. You were not there when he was looking for a camera man to film “A Cook’s Tour” when he had no idea how to run a media company. You only saw him in the best parts of “No Reservations,” him getting on CNN with “Parts Unknown” and him working with Zero Point Zero Production.


You were not around when Maya Angelou was in between jobs, being a waitress, a night club dancer and even was a sex worker at one point. You were not around when she went mute for 5 years, thinking her speaking up against her sexual abuse lead to a murder, in which she only paid attention to her books. You only saw her when she was already a journalist, a civil rights activists and an award winning poet.


You were not there when Elon Musk lived on 30 dollars a month while he was living in Canada. You were not there when he was a recluse, only paying attention to books after his parents divorced. You only saw him when was rich of Paypal with Peter Thiel and went on to run Solar City, Tesla Motors and SpaceX.


I am My Worst Critic


The point is, don’t be too overwhelmed by the best work of other people. They are made over a long period of time and you probably have never seen their first drafts. What you saw was the final product, all financed by producers or investors who has seen the growth of their portfolio. The difference is that they put in the hard work instead of giving up.


Even then, they are still self-critical about themselves. So don’t think you should be trapped in that insecurity.


I know I am still insecure and constantly reminding myself the struggle others went through, might help with it. Maybe what I write today may not be so good, but at least I am able to look back on it and improve. I can tweak things along the way to create pieces that I want. You wouldn't get perfection today, but at least you created something along the way.


What people forget is that people will receive the worst comments from time to time. Even Stephen King was hated by critics when Carrie came out.



With that, I would like to share of the harshest comments I’ve ever gotten on one of my poems. I wouldn’t say that I have made it. But I would say that I am proud that I am still trying to be creative. This is my battle scar and I am proud to show it. Hopefully anyone who still wants to be an innovator or creator no matter what line goes on and continues the fight.





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